Happy Pride, my darlings! I hate having to think about this stuff, but I just can’t ignore the very real threats of individual and organized hate violence targeted against the LGBTQ+ community. Beloved and I have even decided to lay low this year because we are worried that things could get messy.

So since Pride weekend is now upon us, I wanted to share some useful safety tips I’ve learned. It’s a good idea to have a plan and to stay aware of your surroundings, especially when you’re having a drink.

• Make sure you eat and drink water before going out. It will help you keep your wits about you
• If possible, travel in groups. If that’s not an option, use the buddy system
• Never leave with someone you don’t know and trust
• Make sure your phone is fully charged, and you have extra battery packs or chargers with you
• Write down phone numbers of friends or family on a piece of paper in case your phone dies or is lost
• Stay in populated areas
• Trust your instincts
• Make sure someone knows where you are
• Be aware of your surroundings
• Never leave a drink unattended
• If you’re at a bar or club and feeling unsafe, you can order an Angel Shot, and bartenders will know you need help

To learn more, go check out the Anti-Violence Project’s Bar Safety Initiative and the LGBTQ+ Safe Spaces Project.

Wishing everyone a very happy Pride. Stay safe out there!